Dear Self-Doubt, I Hate You

Dear Self-Doubt, I Hate You

Dear Self-Doubt,

I hate you.

I could probably end my letter to you right now, but where’s the fun in that?

Seriously, you’re the worst.

I hate it when you come creeping into my heart after I see one of my friends on Facebook living their perfect little life. I know how dumb it is. Social media is where people showcase the best parts of their life and I don’t get to see the mess that comes along with it, but that doesn’t stop you. You still find a way to chip away at my confidence.

I hate that you sneak into my relationships. My marriage, my friendship, even the relationships I have with my coworkers. You make me feel so small and insignificant. You make me question my words, my intentions and worth. Because of you, I play it safe. I discredit my ideas and my feelings.

Here’s the thing, self-doubt. I know that you’re just feeding me lies from the enemy. So, I’m going to fight your lies with Truth.

I serve a living God who tells me:

I was not given a spirit of fear. I was given a spirit of power, love and self-control. (2 Timothy 1:7)

I am a daughter of the King and I am valuable. (Galations 3:26)

I was created in the image of God. (Genesis 1:27)

I am fully known and I am fully accepted. (John 10:27)

I am constantly being pursued by God. (Psalm 139)

I have the freedom to be bold and confident. (Ephesians 3:12)

He delights in me and I am loved. (Zephaniah 3:17)


I am choosing today and every day to live my life according to this Truth and not your lies.


Daughter of the King



Abba Father,

When self-doubt begins to creep in, guard my heart and my mind with your Truth. Keep my eyes focused on you and your love for me. I know that when I give into the lies of the enemy I am not living the life you have called me to. I want to be my true self. I know you have given me a spirit of power and of love and self-control. Help me to live each day in freedom, knowing that I am a daughter of the King.

In Jesus’ name,



Sagan Hundley About Sagan Hundley

Sagan Hundley grew up a ‘PK’ (preacher’s kid) and has always had a deep love for the Lord and serving others. She currently lives in Kansas City with her husband, Riley and their two golden retrievers, KC and Ellie. They enjoy cheering on their beloved Royals, exploring Kansas City and, of course, eating amazing barbecue. Please visit her website for more info.


  1. What great reminders! It’s always easy to think I am the only one going through those thoughts, but we know the enemy attacks us all. Thanks for the great post.

  2. Wonderful! And something I could hear probably every single day. Those nasty thoughts of self doubt really do like to creep their way into our heads, don’t they? Thank you for this!!

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